Hello friends! Today, we are diving into the complexities of life transitions. Whether we are facing a change in seasons, personal growth, or navigating different phases of life, transitions can be both exciting and challenging. From the start of a school year to a shift in family dynamics, those moments often present unique difficulties for us as parents- and our children.

Today, we will explore why transitions are so tough to deal with, and I will share strategies to help you navigate those moments of change more effectively.

Join me as I unravel the nuances of transitions to gain insights on ways to handle those situations with grace and understanding.

Why Transitions Are Hard: Loss and Unpreparedness

Transitions are challenging for two primary reasons. Firstly, most transitions involve some form of loss, whether tangible- like a person or a job, or more intangible, like the feeling of moving in a different direction. Secondly, transitions can be difficult because we might feel we are losing an old part of ourselves. So, we may need to grieve the loss of that part of ourselves just like we would for the loss of a person.

An Unpredictable Process

Transitions are not a linear process. They can be unpredictable, which makes them even more challenging to deal with.

The Nature of Transitions

Transitions could encompass a spectrum of changes, from the overt, like losing a job or moving, to the less conspicuous, like a shift in our routine, having to relocate for work, or entering a new season of life. We tend to notice the overt changes immediately, but the more subtle shifts often go unnoticed until our feelings overwhelm us or we start feeling anxious. Understanding the nature of those transitions involves recognizing both the evident and the more nuanced shifts that shape the experience.

Navigating Transitions with Awareness, Acceptance, and Intentionality

Navigating transitions requires a three-fold approach. It includes awareness, acceptance, and intentionality.


Awareness involves learning to understand all the emotions associated with the transition, both positive and negative. Whether we anticipate a change or find ourselves in the thick of it, we must acknowledge it and embrace the entire complex emotional landscape.


Acceptance means that we must fully embrace the reality of a given situation. Transitions offer us a fuller understanding of the meaning of acceptance because they encompass both the positive and more challenging aspects.


Moving forward with intentionality involves actively choosing where to direct our energy during a transition. Whether we focus on the positive or the more challenging aspects of a given transition, our intentionality will require learning something new or planning for the future. Taking an intentional approach enables us to be more purposeful and balanced while navigating the challenges of a transition.

Me Time

Our Me Time segment is all about fun today! It has nothing to do with transitions, loss, or anything else we discussed in this episode. We will focus on two entertainment recommendations.

My first recommendation is a series called First Wives Club. First Wives Club is a Netflix gem featuring three successful women navigating life in New York City. It is similar to Sex and the City in setting, but it stands out for its silliness, fun, and camaraderie of women embracing their identities.

My second recommendation is Good Grief, a movie on Netflix directed by Dan Levy, who directed Schitt’s Creek. It tells a beautifully crafted story of friendship, grief, and unexpected transitions, offering a visually stunning and emotionally resonant experience.

Remember that you are loved, and the answer to “Am I a bad mom?” is always no.

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